Who moved my cheese?

Rediscovered a book "Who moved my cheese" could be pretty influential in overcoming addictive traits. People have problems adjusting to change and find it easier to stay in their comfort zone rather than "getting out there" and looking for new opportunities. It is too easy to be complacent and to wallow in self pity and blame the way your life is going on someone or something else. It is better to be independent than dependent, if you make your own choices you don't have to rely on anyone else and benefit more from the rewards you get, because you have earned them.

I'm sick of scratching around in the same places for solutions to my problems, the answers lie somewhere else. I gave up alcohol but became so self absorbed and obsessed with my security and disatisfied with the way things were, but was not getting anywhere fast. I open myself to the concept of change and refuse to let past patterns control me. It is time to move on!!!